Thursday, December 24, 2009

Tumblr

Hello my loves, as I stated previously I am thinking about transitioning from blogger to tumblr. Well the transition has begun!!! I am still testing the waters with this tumblr thing, so check it out!! I might stay with blogger, I may not..i may do both...we shall see. http://areyouaverage.tumblr.com

Enjoy
Be Blessed-Fatima

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Transitions in 2010

Hey guys, sorry for the slow month. December is a drag, finals are a pain. I have been studying for finals since I returned from Thanksgiving Break and I am still studying. I am stuck at the Rut till the 23rd...what a drag. =(. Anyway I just wanted to update you guys on a few things, I am thinking about making a transition from blogger to tumblr. If I do, most likely I will have the same url, it will just be [.tumblr] instead of ].blogspot]. I hope you all will continue to read..the new year brings bigger and better things for the blog, and maybe even a video blog once a month..just stay tuned. My active readers I am sure you will follow wherever I go, but I am still thinking about it..we shall see..until then folks, happy studying.
Be Blessed-Fatima

Thursday, December 17, 2009

PSA

I don't like games, I don't play them, don't play them with me. Grow up.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Random Bits of Inspiration

I'm big on quotes. I enjoy reading them, mainly because many of them can be applied to everyday life...I'm going to give you guys some I found while browsing the net. I hope you enjoy, and I hope you are inspired.
Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy. -Dale Carnegie

In the end, what we regret are the chances we never took. -Fraiser Crane

Success doesn't come to you, you go to it. -Marva Collins

The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance, but live right in it, under its roof. -Barbara Kingsolver

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love. -Tao Te Ching

It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are. -Roy Disney

If someone listens, or stretches out a hand, or whispers a kind word of encouragement, or attempts to understand a lonely person, extraordinary things begin to happen. -Loretta Girzartis

To be upset over what you don’t have is to waste what you do have. -Ken Keyes Jr. I found out that the things that hurt us the most can become the fuel and the catalyst that propel us toward our destiny. It will either make you bitter or it will make you better. -T.D Jakes

Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all. -Norman Vincent Peale

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. -Dalai Lama

Those who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed. -Lloyd Jones

Love is unconditional, relationships are not. -Grant Gudmundson

To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. -Bess Myerson

This has got to stop. Yes, it’s tragic that you were in love and it didn’t work out. But you have got to emotionally cut him out of your life and move on. And the sooner the better. -Sex and the City

Learn to value yourself, which means: fight for your happiness. -Ayn Rand

Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world. -Albert Einstein

Everyone must dream. We dream to give ourselves hope. To stop dreaming - well, that’s like saying you can never change your fate. -Amy Tan
Until the next time my loves
Be Blessed-Fatima

Laugh Out Loud

The Fresh Prince of Bel Air is honestly one of my favorite shows, I may have watched every episode. Well I came across this clip from one of the episodes where Ashley wants to learn how to play the drums. I have been laughing my behind off for about an hour watching this...it is hilarious! If you are having a down day maybe this can lighten up your spirits. =)

Until the next time my loves, laughing is medicine for the heart.
Be Blessed-Fatima

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

World Aids Day

AIDS was first identified in the USA in 1981. The epidemic has now spread to every part of the USA and to all sectors of society. It is thought that more than one million people are living with HIV in the USA and that more than half a million have died after developing AIDS. American HIV surveillance data are not comprehensive so many statistics must be based on reports of AIDS diagnoses.

Some Statistics within the United States:

44.1% of those infected with the disease are African American.

35.3% of those infected with the disease are Caucasian.

19.1 % of those infected with the disease are Hispanic.

Statistics for the end of 2008 concluded that there are approximately 33 million people living with HIV. Approximately 2.7 million more are infected yearly, and 2 million more die due to AIDS.

AIDS is caused by HIV, a virus that can be passed from person to person through sexual fluids, blood and breast milk. Certain types of behavior carry a higher risk of HIV transmission. People particularly vulnerable to HIV include injecting drug users, sex workers and men who have sex with men. In many people’s minds, HIV and AIDS are closely linked with these groups, which can lead to even greater prejudice against people already treated as outsiders.

Yet the vast majority of HIV infections are transmitted through sex between men and women. Nearly half of all adults living with HIV are female. Many Western countries, such as the UK, have increasing rates of HIV transmission through heterosexual sex. In America, where more than a million people are living with HIV, heterosexual sex accounts for one third of new diagnoses.3

As a sexually transmitted infection, HIV particularly affects adolescents and young adults. Deaths of young adults have an especially damaging impact on their families and communities: skills are lost, workforces shrink and children are orphaned. In some African countries, life expectancies have fallen below 40 years, whereas they would have been above 60 without AIDS. There are around 15 million living children who have lost a parent to AIDS.

Their Stories

I found out I was HIV positive august 14, 2002. I was infected by my so called fiancé. I had many emotions, depressed, crying, happy, sad, angry and hurt. There were many times I thought about suicide, but I thought about my one and only son. He already lost his dad to AIDS, so I couldn't bring myself to take him through that again. I could hear the thoughts and whispers of what they thought of me and how they looked at me. People are so quick to put you in the ground (dead and buried); family too. I've been involved with two organizations that are educating me so I can be an educator to my peers. It's not easy always to live this life, but that's why I'm doing what I'm doing, I want to show LOVE, CARE, and CONCERN to people like me. We need love too; our lives don't end because we're HIV positive or have AIDS! But people are ignorant to the fact because they don't know. They don't know the difference between HIV and AIDS. And you can live a healthy normal life. Still, regardless of the negative people and their whispers. My life is in God's hand and he won't put no more on me than I can bear! So lift your head up and be blessed! -Shonda

I was infected nine years ago. Two years later I developed 'a beetroot face'. My whole face was constantly red. Friends, not knowing I was HIV+, thought I was drinking too much alcohol. (I noticed how people started to try and steer me away from drink! They were just doing their best to figure out why I had the red face.) Next, on top of the red face, I developed psoriasis on the face - embarrassing peeling skin along with dozens of tiny whiteheads. At the same time all of my toenails became yellow and infected with fungus under the nail. No amount of topical creams could get through the nails to cure it. I had to start hiding my feet during the summer (I always had to wear socks, so people wouldn't see the yellow/brownish nails). Four years after infection my HIV specialist rang to say that my CD4 count had plummeted to 120 and that I had better visit him again quickly in order to start treatment.Within weeks of starting my first treatment I was having the most vivid and colourful dreams. A month later these dreams had turned into nightmares. They occurred every night, without fail. At about 2am I would awake sweating and shaking, my heart pumping away in fear, and my whole system so saturated with adrenalin because of the terror of the nightmare that I could not get back to sleep for two or three hours. This nightly disruption wrecked my days.

The doctors said that my body would take about a year to adjust. However things did not improve. The nightly sleep deprivation caused depression and after about 8 months or so I was regularly thinking about suicide. My HIV doctor seemed not to believe that I could be suffering so badly and assured me that it was worth hanging on for my body 'to adjust'. After 12 months I was so desperate that I went to the clinic had to make a real fuss. They caved in and agreed to put me on another combination.

I have been on the second combination now for four years. I no longer have nightmares that wake me nightly but my brain has been permanently affected: to this day I have an endless succession of vivid dreams every night. At least I now sleep right through the night but I wake up in the morning mentally exhausted, often with a severe headache, and it takes me from 7.30am until about 11am to "get right" and for my head to clear. The combination I have been on for the last four years has had two unfortunate side-effects: daily diarrhea and a loss of muscle in my behind. The daily diarrhea begins when I get up and doesn't clear until about midday. In those five hours I generally have to go to the toilet about five times. The loss of muscle in my behind means I now have to avoid sitting where there is no cushioning or padding in the chair or seat, because it becomes painful quite quickly.

The meds have cleared up the redness and psoriasis in my face and now, apart from my behind, there is no sign in my appearance that I am a person with HIV. The fungus in my toenails was cured by a separate drug which I had to take for six months. However, psychologically things are quite different. My wrecked mornings are a nuisance, as is the diarrhea. I'm usually depressed in the mornings. But I am aware that if it weren't for the extremely expensive and effective drugs I would be dead, so I am trying to make the most of my life. I know there are some people who have been on the meds for many more years than I have and have never experienced any noteworthy side- effect. They're so lucky. I wished I was one of them. For those of us who are infected with this awful virus, it would be so wonderful if a cure is developed sooner rather than later. I have written my will and lodged it with a solicitor. 70% of the proceeds of my estate will go to medical research. -Anonymous

I hope you educated yourself a little bit while reading his, this is just a small portion of the large amount of information you can know about the disease. Educate yourselves, educate those around you. Take this time out to research the things that you may not have known before and even if you wanted, you can make a difference. You can donate to the National AIDS Foundation by clicking here, but all I ask is that each and everyone of you remain educated and always always be safe.

All information gathered from;

http://www.avert.org

http://www.wordaidsday.org

http://www.google.org/world-aids-day-2009.html


Until the next time my loves, be safe Be Blessed-Fatima

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Deal or No Deal

I first heard Wiz Khalifa when my boy Obi told me about him and Curren$y's mixtape. I like him. He's decent. He just released his album "Deal or No Deal" and it's a pretty big deal guys. The first day it released it was #1 on iTunes...Wale where u at?? LOL jkjk, but for real. Go take a listen, the dude is type aight. I'm listening now and my head has consistently been nodding since track one.

Editor's Update
I have listened to this album twice and I am in love with it. The songs are good quality, and catchy but still lyrical. This Plane is my favorite track. I liked the album so much I purchased the mp3 online to put on my iPod. I highly highly suggest you get this guys album. It goes all the way in.
Until the next time my loves, Enjoy
Be Blessed-Fatima

PSA

Lupe's new mixtape "Enemy of The State; A Love Story" has been getting quite the buzz over the past 12+ hours. It hasn't even been a whole day and I can't seem to stop listening. It is an epic 22 minutes..indeed. Lupe is one of my favorite emcee's as I stated in the previous post, and I feel as if not a lot of people appreciate the art of music.

I have been receiving bashing from various people on my open opinion about sir Wale, one in particular who told me I don't know good music if I don't like Wale's album....that is blasphemy..no religion. Wale isn't as good as all of you "hip hop heads" make him seem, I do enjoy a few of his songs, but he isn't great quality music. To all of you Wale fans, this is a Public Service Announcement; Wale is a mediocre artist, mediocre at the most.

1. His album was mediocre at best. It was boring and it had about 4 or 5 stellar tracks.

2. Although I know album sales don't mean anything, but to all of you die hard Wale fans...did you actually PURCHASE his album...rumor has it, is that it only sold 28k in the first week..I think FAT JOE sold more than that...

3. BET CYPHER...WTF?? When you can give me a justification of what happened there, then maybe I can give the man a bit more respect. I feel bad for the guy, he embarrassed his entire rap career.


4. Wale hyped up his album like it was about to be the modern day "Reasonable Doubt" when it was more like an album by Brittany Spears' ex husband K-Fed. Yes I said it, K-Fed.

5. Wale, you are not Kanye West. I may be the first person who has said this but just listen...
90210-All Falls Down
Sir Wale, All Falls Down is by far one of Kanye's best songs, the message, the word flow..do not try..you will fail.
World Tour-The Glory
"I'm on a world tour with Common my man, after each and every show a couple dykes in the van"
"We on a world tour Wale your man hustlin in each and every gutta with the mic in my hand"
i'm just sayin....

6. How every feature you have on your album murder your track??? Beautiful Bliss feat J.Cole..OMG it wasn't fair how J. Cole murdered Wale, then J. Cole thanks him! HA. A lot of people say that Wale came back in the 3rd verse..I shall disagree..listen again people.

I'm thinking that I shouldn't go any further because I don't want to hurt any feelings. For those of you who claim I don't know good music because I don't like Wale's album...shame on you. Lol.
Wale's album was far from great, mediocre at it's best with 4-5 good tracks..I feel bad for those of you who are brainwashed into thinking that Wale is the best thing to Hip Hop since sliced bread. You guys should open your eyes, and open you ears. We won't compromise substance for popularity", but in this circumstance we need both substance and popularity because Wale needs all of you on his side when you have people like me really understanding the trash that was released. I appreciate and know good music, and Wale just isn't on my "Top 10 emcee's you ain't gotta remind me"

I hope you enjoyed what I had to say =)
Until the next time
Be Blessed-Fatima

He's Backkkkkkk

I'm not too sure if you all know, but Lupe Fiasco is one of my top 5 favorite emcee's. He just released his mixtape "Enemy Of The State" via twitter a few minutes ago. I have yet to listen, i'm just downloading but i'm sure it will be straight CRACK. Download and listen..maybe in your beats by dre headphones. =P Oh and btw, it isn't divided track by track. The mixtape is all jammed into one file, Lupe calls it "cassette style" Hope you enjoy.
Download

Editor's Update

I listened to it, and I love it. Lupe is a creative guy. If you don't like him, I highly suggest you give him a second try. The man is talented. The freestyle over the fireman beat is insane, the angels joint is crazy as is the entire 22 minutes. Please download and enjoy. BUT I don't like how he may possibly be coming at Jay subliminally, but Lupe is just speaking what he feels & I can't be mad at the kid... overall he delivered, it's a dope mixtape, better than Wale's album..HAHA

Enjoy
Be Blessed-Fatima

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Beats by Dre

For those of you who don't know, Beats by Dre are headphones designed by Dr. Dre. They run from 150 to about 300 dollars a pop. I never understood the hype over them, and I would laugh at someone if they told me they were paying that much for some basic headphones....but let me tell you..my mind has completely changed. My cousin purchased a pair of them, the ear bud model which run 150 a pair and let me tell you they are amazing! I never thought music could sound so good. I'm honestly contemplating on whether or not I am going to return them to their owner..lol. The sound quality is bananas, incredible, amazing. I feel like I am at an up close and personal concert..pshhh i'm about to search ebay for these things!! If you haven't experienced beats by dre, you are missing out..they are incredible!
These run for $150.00& These are $300.00+Until the next time folks, go get a tester or something
Be Blessed-Fatima